Not Pink

Not Pink is an innovative shared bucket list app specifically designed for couples who want to transform their dreams into reality. It provides a structured approach to planning memorable experiences while ensuring both partners are actively engaged in the process. Unlike typical couples apps that focus on daily interactions, Not Pink emphasizes real-world adventures, such as trips you've been postponing or special weekends you've promised each other. The app features a unique four-phase journey: Align, Planning, Prepare, and Relive, ensuring that each bucket list item reflects mutual desires rather than a one-sided wishlist. It is perfect for couples who have matured past the honeymoon stage and understand that building a lasting relationship requires effort and collaboration. With a warm and honest design, Not Pink allows couples to sync their plans offline, making it practical for use during travels and adventures.

ALIGN

The Align feature allows you and your partner to swipe through curated ideas, discovering what adventures excite you both. When you both agree on an idea, it becomes a match, automatically adding it to your shared bucket list. This process ensures that your adventures are not just one-sided but reflect shared dreams and aspirations.

PLAN

Once you've aligned on an idea, the Plan feature helps turn those dreams into actionable plans. You can pick dates, add notes, and communicate in real time, ensuring both partners are always on the same page. This collaborative planning process includes discussion threads for each dream, allowing for detailed conversations about your upcoming adventures.

PREPARE

The Prepare feature keeps you organized and ready for your adventures. It automatically surfaces upcoming experiences with countdown timers and preparation checklists, ensuring that nothing gets overlooked. Calendar integration means that important dates are synced, making sure you are fully prepared for every memorable moment.

RELIVE

After your adventures, the Relive feature lets you look back on everything you have done together. You can upload photos, write reflections, and celebrate your experiences, turning your bucket list into a beautiful memory book. This feature allows couples to cherish their shared milestones and reminisce about unforgettable moments in a meaningful way.

Weekend Getaways

Imagine planning a spontaneous weekend getaway. With Not Pink, you can align on the destination, plan logistics together, prepare for the trip, and relive the experience by documenting your adventures, making every weekend special.

Life Milestones

Whether you want to celebrate a significant anniversary or plan a unique birthday surprise, Not Pink helps you outline your aspirations, ensuring both of you are actively involved in creating a memorable celebration that reflects your shared values.

Travel Adventures

When planning a vacation, Not Pink allows you to dream together about exotic destinations. The app's features guide you from the initial idea phase to preparation, making your travel experience seamless and enjoyable.

Learning New Skills Together

If you both want to pick up a new skill, like cooking or dancing, Not Pink helps you align on what you want to learn, plan classes or workshops, prepare with necessary materials, and later reflect on your progress and achievements, strengthening your bond in the process.

Can we share between phones?

Absolutely. One partner creates the bucket list, shares a code, and the other joins instantly. Everything syncs in real time across both devices, ensuring seamless collaboration.

What kind of things can we add to our bucket list?

You can add anything you dream up together, including weekend trips, restaurants to try, skills to learn, and life milestones. Not Pink also provides curated ideas to inspire your imagination.

Is our data private?

Yes, your bucket list is completely private to you and your partner. We do not share your data with third parties, ensuring your experiences and plans remain confidential. Refer to our Privacy Policy for more details.

Do we both need the app?

Yes, both partners need the app installed to share and sync your bucket list. Not Pink is available on iOS through the App Store, allowing you to start planning together right away.